Well, maybe the goals are too high. Try lowering them a little bit. You cannot do everything overnight, you can take one step at a time though. You can start right where you are at.  What if you never make it?  So what, you died trying. And that is what it is about.  Not everyone is going to be super successful, it just is not possible. It’s a lot like fighting a nasty case of gum disease, you do a little bit at a time and take one day at a time.  Goal setting must be reasonable and obtainable or you might give up!  Don’t let that happen!